In this week’s classes we discussed George Herbert Mead’s
concepts of “I” and “Me” while also discussing “Self.” The concept “Me” can be seen of how someone
wants someone to see them and “I” is how the person really acts. I liked how we
use the liar liar video to explain it better. Jim Carry was showing his real “I”
toward his boss because he could tell a lie. When in reality he would have put
on his “Me” personality to filter what he was actually thinking about saying. There
are a million situations that people use “Me” instead of “I” and I liked how we
compared it to Facebook. I feel as if Facebook it a place where people can us “I”
more often. For example, people on Facebook aren’t afraid to start fights or
call someone pretty or ugly. In real life people usually aren’t that confident.
There also can be the duality of the self; this was seen with the Stanford Prison
Experiment. The Stanford Prison Experiment was a group of college student who
were put into a prison setting and were forced to act like they actually committed
a crime. Well by the end the students began to change into thinking they are
actually apart of the prison. It is crazy to think that this can happen to
anyone. Some people can change because of their job; they seem to start
thinking that it is the most important thing and start to lose their sense of
self. Finding one’s self can be challenging
to many people because they can feel lose and feel as if they don’t mean
anything to anyone.
I posted a video about how people see themselves and how
they think others view them. It explains some concepts of self and how people
have different a “self.”
i think it's fascinating how we interact with the world. there is the part of us that wants to express how we really feel, socialization filters that teach us what is appropriate and what is unacceptable behavior, and then there is what we actually do. sometimes the "i" and the "me" are in complete agreement, but when they conflict even slightly, this can cause big problems. i find it ironic that everyone has always told me "be yourself." well how can we ever really do that whe we have so many influences that tell us that we can't always be our complete selves 24/7?
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